FRIENDSHIP#
We all have friends . we talk to many people and we become friends. Everyone will be talking about best friends and stuff, but I never had someone with whom I shared every memory from childhood. I have different set of friends in different phases of life. like until 10th class I have different set of friends. after completion of 10th class ,I have never been very close to them again as I used to be before. yes, they are in contact but It was not like before. same goes to inter friends , after completing inter , the closeness between by mates is not like it was before .
Some people say , "he is my best friend". But in my opinion there is no meaning to the word best friend. Because everyone in their life go through different situations and any one who thinks rationally can say the same person cannot be there in every phase or situation of life. One makes different friends in different phases and spends time with them. and when the next phase starts again he will get some new friends.
so, There will no best friend but, you will be having close friends in different phases of life. Hence you can say there will be friends and close friends but there will be no best friends.
But we don't know how life plays, some may have similar friends through out the life. this we can call as eternal friendship. and I still don't know the exact reason why most of the girls cannot gel together whereas, boys will feel free and friendly with other boys. Generally boys have three faces that they show to the world, one which they show to their family, another which they show to the society and the third face which they show to the girls they are interested in. They act according to the situation they are in. so boys can manage well, this may be one of the reason for gelling together.
These are some of my thoughts on friendship. that's for the day.
THANK YOU..,
Thnks for telling about the relation b/w close Friend nd best friends
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