RESPONSIBILITIES, BOYS VS GIRLS#

 Today we will try to understand the responsibilities and hardships of both boy and girl which they go through in their lives. 

BOYS VERSION;

  • Everyone want a boy to be good in every aspect. like he should be a  good father, good brother, good husband and etc., there is no option for him rather than being good in every thing. This makes them a pressure cooker. If you are not so good then you are cursed, you are treated as loser.
  • If he is a good guy, then no one are interested in him. then also you will be branded as boring. There will be a guy in every family who is doing good, and everything you do is compared with him.
  • This may not be the right way to put it, but you will be used by your family for everything. for example, you should bring vegetables, groceries, eggs, non veg, carrying rice bags and etc.., and you are asked, to bring sarees and stuff from other aunties. also some minor works like switch off the motor, grind the chutney, clean the vehicles and etc.., and if you know driving (car or bike) you will be used as a driver.
  • I still don't know why girls are not interested in good boys? they only trust boys who want to use them for their own purposes. they are interested in bad boys. may be the bad boys are more deceptive. 
  • Even there will be a pressure that if you do not get a decent job , no girl will marry you. this society keeps putting pressure. and where ever you go, you will be asked this question, ' what's next?'.
  • Boys constantly handle pressure from family, society, friends and by seeing some couples. they always think that " why am I like this?".
  • If you have a sister then your responsibility gets doubled. you are asked to look after her.
  • Boys get caged in this prison of responsibilities. where you cannot get out.
GIRLS VERSION;

  • Girls are restricted to go out by parents because of teasing , rape, kidnap, trafficking and etc..,
  • They cant wear dresses of their choice.
  • They will not have the freedom to go anywhere.
  • They also taught to speak limited to boys or try to avoid them.
  • Society think that they cant live by themselves.
  • There life decisions before marriage is taken by parents and after marriage is taken by her husband. she doesn't have  decision making power.
  • even they are unhappy by the way they are treated.
Here ,The irony is boys who are not interested in taking responsibility are taking responsibility , and girls who don't want to get restricted  are letting others to restrict them. how funny😅😅. There are some boys who don't know how to respect women , may be because of the society they are part of. but, you cannot say every boy is like that. And there are women who cheat some innocent guys, and you cannot say every girl is like that. so, everyone will have some or the other problems but , you should know how to deal with the problems. that will make you great and help you to prosper in life.

"every thing started from a bacteria, who knows how it ends? then why care all this importance" Do what ever you want to do, and live the moment as you wish because we don't know what happens in life.

" Time keeps running and life keeps fucking" so, rise after every hardship and rule the world.

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