50 NOT OUT#

 This is my 50th post. This makes me happy. even I did not think that I will write this many posts. But nothing interesting happening in life. 

I wonder how today generation boys get girls for friendship and love? bcz , even my juniors are in  relationships and some of them are going to next level. so much of western influence is seen. not only juniors but also seniors and some classmates. they do things casually in public which was seen as a taboo back in days. I don't know whether it is correct or not. I cant judge them because I don't really know their true intentions.  

Especially girls these days are hyper active. they just become too close just after first meeting. they exchange numbers, insta and snap IDs. Also most of them are egoistic and proud. I meet many girls but none of them feel like natural. most of them show a overfriendly nature, when they talk they are nice, but they just don't care rest of the time. You can also say, why shouldn't you make an attempt to talk. It is not that simple.

There is a problem. If a boy himself makes an attempt they call " he is desperate". he is made inferior by the Girl. They take things for granted. But this is quite opposite with boys, most of the boys now-a-days are becoming submissive.( karuvu gallu ekkuvaipoyaru ) Even though it is dumb joke they laugh so that the girl is happy. by this boundaries are erasing and the girl starts entering into every of the boy's matter. by this most of the boys feel that they are freedom less. even though years of friendship doesn't matter when the girl enters into life. I don't know why boys have become like this. 

Boys need personal space. It is also an important aspect not only in relationships but also marriages. No girl should try to control this personal space. You should have space with friends , family and etc., no one should enter into your matters. you should be the one controlling every relation you have.

This is not only for boys but also girls. every girl should maintain boundaries from everyone. 

so that's for the day. thank you.




Location: Hyderabad, Telangana, India

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